According to Sal Jefferies, our mindset is the architecture of our thinking, largely made up of our beliefs and values.
If you find yourself always doing the same thing and having disappointing results every time, it could be that you have a fixed mindset.
In this short video, Sal explains how you can shift a fixed mindset to a growth mindset to help you deal with life’s set backs more effectively.
A growth mindset will help you learn, adapt and grow. So if you keep failing to get the results you want, learn how moving from a fixed mindset to a growth mindset can bring the changes you wish to see.
Want to know more?
Make sure you join our live virtual Mindset and De-Stress Clinics or Stress Management Workshops with Sal on AHS Wellbeing Online, sessions can be booked here.
About Sal Jefferies
Yoga Teacher, Courage Coach and Contemporary Psychotherapist PG Dip Sal Jefferies helps people who want to overcome challenges in their life and move forward. Main areas include anxiety/stress, low confidence, relationship changes and health issues.
He specialises in human behaviour, psychology, somatic (body language), self awareness and yoga. He uses an approach utilising all his specialisms to deal with personal development and change.
Sal’s pioneering approach to personal development combines Mindset (thinking/cognition), Mood (emotions) and Movement (body dynamics and body language). When these three levels are integrated they build mental fitness, emotional resilience and a courageous mindset where inspiration, purpose and confidence become natural.
If your enthusiasm to start a new exercise programme has waned after the first week or two, don’t worry, we’ve got some useful tips to help you enjoy your workouts, maintain your fitness programme and have a positive impact on your wellbeing.
Tip #1 Try a variety of activities
There is no single exercise that is best for you. We need a range of activity to work our heart,lungs & circulatory system (Cardio) and strengthen our bones & muscles (Strength & Conditioning). Try a range of activities to find the ones you enjoy, because if you enjoy it, you’ll stick with it!
Tip #2 Set realistic expectations
When you’re feeling motivated to get fit, lose weight or improve your health & wellbeing, it’s really easy to set yourself unrealistic targets. If you’ve not exercised for a while, planning to exercise everyday may set you up for failure. It can lead to you feeling exhausted, pressured and giving up. Instead, build your routine gradually. Start with one activity and when you are comfortable with this, add another activity and before you know it, exercise will become part of your normal routine.
Tip # 3 Work out with a friend
This may not be easy during a pandemic, but planning to join the same online class as a friend or meeting up with them for a walk or run, once restrictions allow, can help you stick to your plan.
Tip # 4 Keep focused on your ‘why’
Our ‘why’ is what motivates us to become more active in the first place. Your ‘why’ maybe to achieve a new challenge, improve your health, lose weight or feel less stressed. Whatever it is, remind yourself everyday why you are exercising. Read our Believing is Achieving blog for some useful tools to keep you focused.
Tip #5 There’s no failure, only feedback
Changing our habits doesn’t come easy! If you find yourself reverting back to your old habits, don’t beat yourself up! See it as a journey and you have just become sidetracked, learn from it and get right back on track. For more info, read our blog on habit change.
Switch the idea of exercise to movement, here is a wellbeing hack from Sal Jefferies
Hooray!!! It’s the first day of Spring! So to help you lift out of the Lockdown fog, we bring you our first Step into Spring tip.
This week is all about being kind to yourself.
According to Paul Gilbert, PhD, we have three types of emotion regulation systems – we’ve got the Threat System, the Drive System, and the Soothing System and we switch between these systems depending on our situation, environment and thoughts.
The Threat System
Its function is to manage threats, survive, protect and to seek safety. This activates the sympathetic nervous system and triggers an acute stress response that prepares the body to fight or flee. The body stays on high alert, great if you are in danger but long-term can lead to chronic stress and serious health issues.
The Drive System
Here, we are seeking reward and driving to achieve goals, find excitement and achieve tasks. Again very useful in certain circumstances, though can be exhausting if we stay here too long!
The Soothing System
This is when we rest, nourish our bodies, feel safe, slow down and spend time caring for ourself and others. Here our bodies can recover and rejuvenate, giving you back energy and a zest for life.
When we spend most of our time in Threat or Drive, we become tired, stressed and unable to function well. Spending more time in the soothing system will restore your body and help put that spring into your step!
This week focus on understanding how long you spend in Drive and Threat and re-balance this by doing something you enjoy each day, that ensures you spend more time in Soothing. What will you try? Maybe a relaxing bath, listening to your favourite music or time with loved ones? Whatever it is, just make it a habit to be kind to yourself.
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If you want to find a lifestyle balance that takes back control of your wellbeing, there are 5 key areas to consider. Each will have a profound effect on your daily life and are a great starting point for unlocking your potential to be the best you can be.
The 5 lifestyle keys are:
Research has shown that what we eat affects both our physical and mental health and is associated with our sense of Wellbeing. Keeping a food diary for a week can help you see if you are eating well and help you identify any changes you may need to make to improve your health and wellbeing.
Being active and taking regular exercise promotes overall health and wellbeing as well as reducing stress. You also become stronger, fitter and less prone to injury. If you’re not currently exercising regularly, try starting with 10 minutes of gentle activity such as walking, dancing to your favourite tune or just try to spend less time sitting and more time moving, you’ll soon feel the benefits!
We all sleep, but how well do you sleep? Sleeping improves mental and emotional wellbeing. It also allows your body to rest and repair, recover from illness, boosts your immune system and gives you energy. Try to get into a regular sleep routine and make sure you’re sleeping in a restful environment.
We go through each day following our usual habits, often on auto pilot, not noticing what we do! Start to take notice, are these habits useful or are they preventing you achieving what you hope for? If you feel you need to change your habits, check out last weeks blog when we looked at how habits are formed and how we can learn new habits.
How is your inner dialogue? Does that voice in your head make you feel strong, capable and in control? Or is it full of self doubt, criticism and negative thoughts. Your inner dialogue can either support or sabotage the changes in the lifestyle you wish for. Notice the thoughts that affect your actions and start to recognise if they help or hinder you.
We will cover these in more detail over the coming weeks and provide some useful strategies to help you find a lifestyle balance that helps you take back control of your wellbeing, so don’t forget to check in next week!
Hands up if you’ve ever tried to make positive changes to your lifestyle, such as losing weight, getting more active or stopping smoking and soon found yourself slipping back into your old ways again!
Why is that?
During our lifetime, our experiences have helped up develop patterns in our behaviour, often referred to as habits. These habits maybe positive and help keep us safe and well, such as the habit of brushing your teeth, checking for traffic before crossing the road or eating when you’re hungry.
We can also develop unhealthy habits we may want to change, but these habits are often hardwired in our brain and finding the willpower to change isn’t easy. Understanding how these habits form can help you understand how to break down barriers and stop these habits getting in the way.
Habits are formed by a cue, a routine and a reward, this is called a habit loop. For example;
The Cue: you feel thirsty
The Behaviour: you drink some water
The Reward: you feel relief from quenching your thirst.
Repeating the same behaviour, over and over, trains your brain to recognise this as ‘normal’ and it becomes a habit. If you want to change a habit you have to rewire the circuit, by changing the behaviour and repeating it over and over, at least 21 times, until it becomes a new habit.
Start by observing any patterns in the behaviour you want to change. Can you identify what the cue is? Can you find ways to change the behaviour that follows the cue? Or find a new reward that makes you want to repeat the new behaviour again and again?
The Cue: You are feeling bored
The Behaviour: You decide to eat some chocolate
The Reward: The release of dopamine, serotonin and endorphins help you feel happier but only in the short-term, as later you may feel guilt.
Rewire this to:
The Cue: You are feeling bored
The Behaviour: You decide to go for a brisk walk outdoors
The Reward: The release of dopamine,serotonin and endorphins helps you feel happier, this time in the long-term, as this has also helped you feel in control.
Everyone will have their own habits and the desire to change a habit is personal to each individual, here is how you can get results:
Once you’ve decided what you want to change and why (see last weeks blog), write down what barriers may get in your way. Consider:
Your habits,beliefs and barriers that you’ve come across before.
What environmental factors may affect you i.e. work, day to day life and social obligations.
Family commitments and expectations.
From your list, pick one or two things you think you can tackle.
The media constantly tells us why we should do more exercise, so why is it so hard for some of us to be more active?
Our past experience will have shaped the beliefs we hold about ourselves and these beliefs help shape our behaviour. If you are one of those people who have always participated in sport, chances are you’ll have no trouble keeping active for life. However, if you hated sport at school, have a condition that affects your movement or simply do not like exercise, becoming active will undoubtedly be more of a challenge. If you believe you don’t like exercise, but want to change this, here are some guidelines to help you start to make that change. Remember, Rome wasn’t built in a day! Take one step at a time and start by considering the following;
What is your current situation?
First, think about what you do right now. What is your normal routine? How do you feel? What is important to you? Are you happy with the way you live your life? Spend some time thinking this through and write down your thoughts.
What do you want to achieve?
Look ahead to the next 12 months, what changes would you like to see? Why are they important to you? If you do not know what you want to achieve, maybe think about what you don’t want to happen. For example; as you age you may not want to lose your independence or you may want to prevent developing a condition such as diabetes, back pain or heart disease. Visualise how you want to be in 12 months time and write this down.
What Needs to Change?
Now, consider what you need to change. What are you doing right now that needs to change in order to be where you want to be in 12 months time? You may end up with several things you need to change. Just focus on changing one thing at a time. What can you can change this week? Keep it simple, realistic and believe you can achieve it, then give it a try! Believing really is achieving!
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Lets face it, we are all feeling the impact of COVID-19! Stress and anxiety are common place in this day and age and a lot of us will suffer from this on a regular basis. Having some natural ways to manage and control it, can enable us to deal with these times and get the balance back in our lives without the need for medical intervention.
In this 1 hour session with Loren Leaver we will look at ways that have been proven to help decrease and limit stress and anxiety in life using natural and holistic methods which will also benefit other areas of your health and wellbeing. This session is aimed at all ages and genders and will help you with:
Healthy Habit Change
Body Language and Confidence
Overcoming fear-Self Conscious to Conscious self
Creating Healthy Boundaries for a stress free life
Sports Massage Therapist, Personal Trainer and Wellbeing Advisor
As a big football fan, fitness lover, and over recent years, a surfer, Loren’s decision to retrain came from helping a friend’s Saturday league football team out years back as match day first aid, where her interest in injury prevention, management and rehabilitation was born. Loren studied sports massage and rehabilitation therapy, which was then followed by studying personal training and nutrition predominantly for rehabilitation.
Specialising in women’s health, cardiac and injury rehabilitation, Loren continually sets herself new challenges and finds herself studying and looking at different courses, methods and techniques to improve her range of services to clients as both a sports massage therapist, trainer and wellbeing advisor.
If you are new to exercising or have other underlying health conditions, it’s difficult to know what you should be feeling and have the confidence to continue if you are unsure.
If you normally have painful joints e.g. Arthritis, you may think exercise will do harm. The opposite is true – Moving and Exercising the joints is essential to keep them healthy and has been proven to reduce pain and improve how well your joints work.
It is so important not to avoid activity because of painful joints, it will lead to increased stiffness and weaker muscles – this is known as the deconditioning cycle
Am I doing more harm than good?
It is totally normal to feel a bit uncomfortable or even sore after exercise – especially if it is something new or you haven’t done it for a while. But remember this does not mean you are doing harm. Any discomfort should settle and as you exercise more regularly, this discomfort will become less and less – a sign that your muscles are getting stronger and joints are working better.
Am I doing enough?
We are recommended to be doing 150 minutes of moderate intensity aerobic exercise per week, but what does this mean?
Aerobic exercise is any activity that increases your breathing and heart rate (e.g. walking, swimming, dancing, gardening), and will improve your general stamina and fitness and have many positive effects on your health and wellbeing.
What is moderate?
You should be exercising at a level that increases your heart rate and breathing, you will feel warmer and you should still be able to talk – but not sing! If you like numbers, it should feel like around 5-6 on a scale of 0-10
150 minutes a week sounds like a lot!
If you haven’t been exercising much recently, this may seem like an unreachable goal. But don’t worry, even small increases in your activity levels can have positive effects on many aspects of your health and wellbeing. Create smaller, more achievable goals like aiming for a 10 minute chunk of moderate intensity exercise per day to begin with and slowly build up from there if you are able to.
Strength & Balance Exercise
Including exercise to improve muscle strength and balance is important to maintain independence, prevent falls and make everyday life a little easier. You can do this by using weights, resistance bands or your own body weight.
To see improvements in strength you need to work with a resistance that tires your muscles to a point where you can’t do any more of that exercise, and would need a short rest before repeating another set of the exercise.
Balance specific exercises should also feel like a real challenge. The aim is that you create a little ‘safe’ wobble in your body so that you are working all your proprioceptive nerve endings (that tell your body where it is in space), and your reflex reactions. This is challenging your nervous system and to see results balance exercises should be practiced every day.
These exercises should feel like a real challenge:
“If it doesn’t challenge you, it won’t change you”
Here’s how to make it feel easier!
Hydrate – make sure you drink plenty, if you are even a little dehydrated exercise will feel harder
Eat well – A balanced, healthy diet will give your body what it needs to work most efficiently for you
Exercise with a buddy or group if able to – Increase your enjoyment of exercise and time may pass more quickly
Pace yourself – Don’t be tempted to increase your exercise by too much, even if you’re having a “good” day. You may feel wiped out and be put off trying again.
It shouldn’t feel like this:
If you experience chest pain, dizziness or you are very short of breath -stop immediately and seek medical advice
If you experience any unusual or sharp joint/muscle pain while exercising – first check you are doing it correctly. If it persists stop and contact your instructor for advice.
By Emma Rollings, AHS WellBalanced Clinical Lead & AHS Wellbeing Coach